Picture this:You are in a baseball match.You get ready for the strike.The first strike,you miss it.In your head,you say,"strike one",i'd just have to try again the next time.But the umpire calls it a strike out (far-fetched i know,just go along with this scenario).Ridiculous right?But,my friend,you have no say in what's fair in the real world out there.In the real world,people don't give you the second and third strikes.Well,at least i learnt it the hard way.
I have no say in it,the ump does.This match ended for me earlier than usual.